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Do you observe sex above? Didn't think so. Then you better comprehend sex has nothing to do with nudity. 2 completely different topics. Yes, of course I am speaking about our beautiful bodies. They are what we inhabit while we are together on this planet. Unfortunately, it is the first item most shallow people judge us on all the time. It is our unfortunate reality that people see us as beautiful or ugly based solely on our outer appearance. I have even read that if 2 women apply for the same job, most of the time the prettier of the two would be the one that gets the job regardless of their qualifications. Would you rather see the skinny hot blond or the overweight brunette as the receptionist? Remember that you are walking into an attorney’s or doctor’s office. Some think it seems to just give a better impression to prospective clients. You realize that if we placed more emphasis on what’s inside, we would be in a much more accepting world. Another point to consider, if we all could just accept others for who we all are, We would not even need clothes! But since the clothing industry would absolutely flop and go by the wayside, this will never happen. It won’t happen because too many narrow-minded people will always equate the wrong things together. Which two things am I talking about? C’mon you know, nudity and……… SEX of course! Yes, sex, the very pleasurable experience that we are forbidden to do by law, for some unknown reason. If you do not agree, just try to do it outside in public or pay for it. You will not be going back home if you get caught. Anatole France said it best when he said, “Religion has done love a great service by making it a sin.” Love and sex are both forbidden. Why is that? While keeping an open mind, ask yourself why clothes are really necessary. The only valid logical reason is to protect yourself from elements like rain and snow when its too cold and for some, the sun, which is why sunscreen is always available. They also serve, to some extent, to keep seats sanitary. Otherwise, I will try to predict what your answers will be: “I’m too (insert adjective here) and my (body part) are too small.” or simply “My body is not perfect.” If you know of the “perfect” body, I would love to see it. However, this is an utter impossibility since what I find perfect you may not and vice versa. Remember, “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.” As you can plainly see, not even hollywood has the perfect body! Above, you can view that the perfect body is a combo of celebrities. “Everyone on TV and movies is so (adjective here).” tell me… Do you really think those models they use are genuine people? Photoshop, retouching, and the many other things they do to enhance what you see. We can only imagine what other tricks and falsehoods they use in their ads. Is that real? Also, you know that they use a select few of the real-life community so they are more appealing. Not to mention the people you see are always going through months and months of dieting, exercise, getting enough sleep, etc. It’s hard work. Besides, if you are around genuine nudists with proper values, they really do not care at all, what you look like. I urge you to visit a nudist venue, while nude of course, and you will notice immediately that nudists look into your eyes, not at your irrelevant outer shell. Also, you will see that no one looks like a movie star. The only other false declaration I have heard is that you are actually “forced” to look at nudity. Forced? Give me a break! This is complete, utter nonsense. If you can’t control what you look at with your own eyes, then you need some serious psychological help. Furthermore, if everyone was nude at all times, and we could see everyone’s entire body, then no one would be curious at all about what you have. We shouldn’t be curious anyway because we all know what both the male and female anatomy comprise. If we always saw it, then we would become desensitized to each other’s bodies. Let’s examine this logically, How are you “forced” to look? If you are “forced,” then why would you complain if you see alluring beauty? If you are “forced” to look, which you aren’t, then why are you “forced” to look at nudity but NOT “forced” to look at anything else? That brings up another question. For the parents out there, I’m curious. are you going to tell me you prefer your kids watching violence, blood, and gore on TV including playing extremely violent video games like Grand Theft Auto, before you let them see the human body which they have too and will see other bodies anyway at some point in their lives? If you just happen to be one of these types of oblivious parents, YOU really must ask yourself, "Does nudity really harm children?" Now, I am really wondering about this. So, you would rather them see violence instead of love or beauty? So this is better for you to expose our children to, rather than the human body, which you surmise is somehow harmful to them when they are going to see it anyway? I am extremely disappointed in you, parents. Very questionable parenting to me. But then here's an idea for you to try, You forbid them to see something they have for themselves? What message does it send to them, if you are OK with violence, but you forbid the human body from being seen? Just some food for thought. After close scrutinization, and opening up your mind, and really thinking about your body and what I have stated here, you will realize the human body is beautiful and we all know what is hiding behind the cloaks we wear, anyway. So making my points crystal clear: 1—The ads you see are false and have been enhanced in many ways. 2—It doesn’t hurt children at all, but in fact, is beneficial in many ways, yet, I would ponder what benefits violence has. No wonder this world is so deceptive, angry, and violent. 3–No one is EVER forced to look at anything! Lastly, I am including what Robert Morrow stated about nudity and also the young impressionable children. He drives my point home about desensitization. His views should be everyone’s views, he impressed me substantially with what he conveyed in his statement. He states: It can be demonstrated that one who is constantly exposed to nudity will become desensitized to the effects. This has an even greater effect on children. When they’re raised that way, nudity is normal and people who wear clothes all the time are the weird ones. Personally, I think that, as a civilization, we need to grow up. Even Christians, ones who have actually read the Bible, like nudity, because it’s how God created us. Aside from a brief chastising from God in the beginning of Genesis, there’s really no mention of the body being a shameful thing. In conclusion, religious or not, there’s nothing wrong with nudity, or even just topless ladies. Let them tan their tits, for God’s sake! Robert Morrow His statement says it all. Thanks, Robert. I hope I shed some light on what all of you perceive about the beautiful human body.

Part I - My article. Part II – Miss G’s encouraging comments, who is a textile, but allows her mind to open up to my valid points. Part III – My comments back to hers. As mature open-minded adults, we should already know how to conduct ourselves properly, but most textiles can’t decipher the difference between sexuality and nudity. These are unequivocally separate in the nudist community. First of all, what is sex? Quite simply an act or action. Now, what is Nudity? Per Wikipedia: “Nudity, or nakedness, is a state of being in which a person is not wearing clothing, or more specifically not covering their genitals.” It is therefore not an action, but is a state of being, instead. A friendly lifestyle where participants choose to not wear useless coverings to hide from the world in shame while allowing themselves to feel the freedom of the breeze and sunlight to touch their bodies only wearing their NATURAL suit. Now ask yourself if all clothing is non-sexual? Is it really? You know the ones where the male genitals are showing by shape alone through underwear. This can be seen in some women’s poses too, by the way she positions her legs. The pictures that are described above have some real sexual connotations to them even though there is absolutely no nudity whatsoever. Please remember that it is better not to use extremes. It is all about context. Nudity is not always sexual and Clothing is not always non-sexual. Understanding this properly, shows that clothing can be very sexual at times. Why is it that people inappropriately tie nudity with sex without even thinking? They should look at how the nude person is acting or what they are doing before they automatically pass inaccurate judgment using their own "blinded" sight.  If you open your mind to other ideas and thoughts, then you will realize that nudity is not intrinsically sexual. Now, being completely HONEST with yourself and me, Which pics do you feel are more sexual in nature? The 2 above? OR The one with 2 ladies and a man? When you are ready to take a shower and nude, what kind of sex are you having? If you’re in the bedroom and your partner is in bed, you are just standing in the room doing nothing at all, while nude, what kind of sex are you having? NONE whatsoever! Do you see my point? There are many family-friendly nudist resorts where age does not play a factor. Children and adults alike are engaging in similar activities that even you may perform around kids, just with no guards to hide behind, being safe and conducting themselves properly in a clean, wholesome, respectful manner and environment that protects our families. Now, think of our children and how we always nurture and protect them. Our society feels the same way as the parents who make sure their children are safe and protected from any dangerous deviant acts. There are plenty of family-friendly nudist resorts who ALWAYS keep a watchful eye for perversion. They urgently handle any questionable actions or situations immediately! Furthermore, we, nudists, are the friendliest accepting people you will EVER meet! Moreover, children are intermingling with respectful family members in a safe, NON-threatening environment. Everyone cohabitates safely with the whole family wherein everyone participates in safe, fun, children friendly and parents' approved activities. So ALL adhere to the same, safe, sane way of conducting their behavior, and there is always someone who keeps a watchful eye out for anything unsafe. With everyone being equal there is no reason whatsoever that anyone would need to conceal their wholesome natural bodies. There is no reason to, because children have the same bodies we do. After all, haven't they seen themselves already? So there is absolutely NOTHING to be concerned with, as all of us nudists look out for one another, especially everyone's children! When children are raised properly around nudity they are not afraid of it, and therefore not ashamed of themselves. They accept their own bodies the same way we ALL should, with the proper dignity and respect towards everyone. Nudists are, in fact, very vigilant against shady people and any distasteful activity. They see the world in a respectful manner and exist in a clean wholesome environment that protects the entire family unit. I will provide you the proper perspective on the human body so you can have proper respect for it. First of all, you have laid eyes on the most beautiful entity you have ever seen. The most intricate creation in the world: The HUMAN BODY! The second lucid point is, why must you keep it hidden if everyone already knows what it entails? Other than for protection, warmth, or a certain level of sanitation, you don’t! All guys have their own equipment and All ladies have their own. We ALL have seen BOTH! BOTH bodies have their OWN inherent beauty regardless. Since we all have already seen it, why can’t we just be open with ourselves? We really should just be genuine about who we are to others and be proud of ourselves while having nothing whatsoever to be ashamed of. So, how can people be disgusted by the sight of the beautiful human body? Why assume, without merit, that someone is a pervert or sexual if they are nude? Perhaps, because of the illogical association with the very topic of this article, Nudity and Sex! Why cover yourself with artificial facades hiding who you truly are? We are forced to live with our beautiful bodies covered hiding our innate beauty. Why can’t society just allow us our own freedom of choice? No one is ever forced to look at nude bodies. Yet, instead of just ignoring the sight of one, the same way when we are covered, textiles will stare and gawk at buff bodies, which some are not even comfortable viewing. Its beyond me why textiles will look right at nudity, if they are not comfortable with it. The $5 million question is: Why leer, stare and gawk at nudity if it makes you feel UNCOMFORTABLE?!?!? The nudist may also feel uncomfortable being gawked at! So instead of performing the most logical action, ie, ignoring them and making BOTH of you comfortable, you textiles instead stare right at the nudist, in shock, hence making BOTH FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE!! Then as if enough harm and embarrassment hasn't taken place, textiles will also notify the authorities to have nudists hauled away for NO reason at all. So nudists are the only ones punished for the textiles lack of respect AND self control while leering and being in shock seeing what they have seen before, as well as their own indiscretions. .We should ALL just learn to accept each other for who we are and what we look like while we ALL live in unity, harmony and, yes, also peace together. Would this not be a much more pleasant life for everyone? If we all just did this, we would not even need clothes! If humanity could be improved while having the utmost respect for each other, then why cant we ALL just strip and free ourselves from our own inhibitions? Summon your courage from deep within yourself and get the exhilarating & liberating feeling of freedom and be uninhibited once and for all. That’s what I did for myself! I just summoned my courage to try this wonderful emancipating experience and I was finally... “OPEN & FREE!” You must feel more comfortable with yourself and realize that we are all imperfect. That’s exactly what makes us all unique human beings. We, nudists, are the friendliest people you will ever meet. We look through your eyes at who you are as a person, not judge you by how you look on the outside. After all, we know the eyes are the windows to our souls, the very essence of who we are and what really counts. One more thing you should consider is how we were all created. Did our supreme designer have some flaw in his work when he made us? Why is everything else considered beautiful, but our bodies must be covered in shame? Nothing else created must be covered for reasons of indecency or any other reason. Our bodies are, in fact, stunning but most societies restrict our fundamental liberties to coincide with their own narrow-minded views. European nations are much freer about nudity. In Spain, people are expected to cover up in certain situations, as in larger cities, it is just not illegal in Spain. The beaches, mostly in Germany and France, among others, are not actually “clothing optional” but you are still free to remove clothing at will. In contrast, the USA has some very restrictive and unreasonable regulations in place regarding nudity. Most Americans turn their noses up at any kind of nudity. You can actually be arrested, jailed, and in some cases, have a permanent sexual offense if you are nude in a majority of places in the US. Only in certain secluded or hard to reach areas are you allowed to be nude. Even in these places, not everyone is nude. The so-called nude beaches can have most of the people wearing clothes like the ones that I have attended. How is that really a nude beach? Why would you bother going to a nude beach if you are NOT nude? If you want to wear clothes, then stay at a textile beach. There is NO purpose for you at a nude beach unless you are strictly there to stare and gawk at the patrons, making some feel uncomfortable. Save our space for the confident people who actually want to partake in the ritual of being comfortable tastefully exposing themselves. I would love to live in a world where we all could have the freedom of choice and could just accept and love one another once and for all, someday. We could all live in a wonderful non-judgmental society that could accept each other and not judge ourselves strictly on the outer shell. Do you agree that this world would be a much more respectable and freer place? After all, what is more important, the outer shell or the inner person? Do you agree? Part II These comments are from a wonderful encouraging textile, Miss G, who allows herself to have an open mind and understand the points I have made in my article. Her comments have arrows pointing towards them. Are nudity and sex synonymous in your life? —> To a large degree, yes. Only because I haven’t been around nudism much. So to have a person disrobe before me is a signal in my delighted brain. “Ok, we’re going to have sex now.” Having said that, I did not feel this way when my parents were naked when I was a kid. And I do not feel this way when my daughter is naked around me. Both were natural and comfortable to me, and even endearing in ways. Sweet and bonding. It left me feeling they trusted/trust me and felt close to me and comfortable with me. This is very obvious to me but in case you have a question in your mind, let me look at each one with you because I feel anyone should know this. What is sex? An act or action. Nudity? Perception or lifestyle. Also the state of wearing what you were born with. —> Yes. But society has created our perception of nudity being sexual or “bad”. Criminal even. Shameful. Genitals and breasts as “forbidden fruit”. And so many of us see them and are titillated or shocked or just find it out of place. I like that you are challenging this thinking. I love to expand my mind and look at a thing from all facets. Ultimately I’d like to enjoy the freedom of nudism, particularly the freedom from poor body image that starts so young and has plagued me in many serious ways over the years. Now ask yourself if ALL clothing is NON sexual? Is it really? I have seen more than a few types of clothed pictures that can have a real sexual connotation to them. If you saw the same pictures, you will also see that clothing can be very sexual at times, so why is it that people inappropriately equate nudity automatically with sex without even thinking. —> Good point! If anything, clothing can enhance the body’s image into that of a very sexual being. Or a very asexual being for that matter. Meanwhile naked is just naked. —> I’ve had the experience of seeing many naked pics of a man on a profile, and actually finding the clothed pic he happened to include as the sexiest of them all. It’s not that his body itself wasn’t sexy – it was – but that the less-is-more phenomenon came into play. If you think about this topic intelligently and rationalize it, you can already see that it is different. If you can open your mind to other ideas and thoughts, you will see my points and make changes in your life to your way of thinking without any sexual connotations. —> Sounds logical. When you are ready to shower in the nude, what kind of sex are you having? —> none If you’re standing nude in the bedroom while your partner is in bed, and you are in the room doing nothing at all, what kind of sex are you having? —> None that is intentional. But I recall when married that I couldn’t be naked around my husband without feeling like a we object in his eyes. It’s fabulous to be desired, but sometimes I just wanted to get from the shower to dressed for work without feeling – is the word objectified? Now think of your children and how you nurture and protect them. Most of society thinks and feels the same way. So why are there family friendly nudist resorts? —> my initial reaction right now was to recoil from this concept. Fear of predators…. I don’t even want their eyes on my child. However, I let myself imagine that the families are my good friends. Good protective parents that I need not fear. My mind nudged open a little. At family friendly nudist resorts, children are intermingling with adults in a clean, safe, respectful, NON-threatening environment. If all of us could work together to keep children safe, there wouldn’t even be this unneeded taboo of having to hide ourselves from children that will see it anyway in due time at some point in their lives. Furthermore, children have the same exact equipment as we ALL do. —> my parents were quite naked even if we kids weren’t really. I was accustomed to it at 9-years-old when they divorced. I distinctly recall visiting my dad at his new apartment. He was naked, and on the phone talking with his new girlfriend. I was dressed. She asked him if he was naked in front of me. He said “yes, but Lena’s always seen me like this though”. His girlfriend somehow let him know it wasn’t appropriate. From that moment on I thought of nudity as a no-no. I literally recall looking at my dad’s naked body during that phone call thinking “Oh. This is a bad thing. Okay.” Never had my father ever in anyway been inappropriate toward me in a sexual manner. His girlfriend might have done well to mind her own damn business. Raise your children properly with respect and pride in themselves, they would not be afraid of our bodies, they would just accept them the same way we should ALL accept each other properly in a clean wholesome respectful manner. —> Agreed. I was naked around both kids until my son began to protest. I respect his wishes and I am dressed. —> My daughter very much enjoys being nude. Sexuality is the farthest thing from her mind, she’s just more comfortable this way. It’s truly adorable to me. But her brother is, again, uncomfortable about it. So she makes efforts to respect his comfort zone. With me she can be herself. I'm going to provide you with the proper perspective on the human body so you can have the proper respect for it. First and foremost, you have seen the most beautiful creation on earth: Our human body! —> Many will get hung up on society’s definition of beauty at this point. I admit that I am. I think the human body is miraculous, but not necessarily always beautiful. Second point is, what is the big secret if you already know what it consists of? —> Hmm. Miraculous body parts that allow us to enjoy this beautiful thing called life? Why do you really need to hide it? You don’t! All guys have the same equipment and then gals have their own respective form. Both bodies have their own inherent beauty regardless. Since we ALL have seen it before, then why cant we as a society just be ourselves while being free and open with our bodies? You can be the real genuine person that you should be proud of and have nothing whatsoever to be ashamed of. —> Getting to this point will take me more time and study. Sounds great though. Truly. —> One thing that stood out in the exhibitionist versus nudist article was this: “I can speak from a woman’s perspective that it’s the sexual objectification of the woman’s body since forever that makes it so hard to want to be naked in front of people.” —> Even if my body were “perfect” by society’s standards, I don’t necessarily want it scrutinized by others – positively or negatively – when I’m trying to relax at the beach. My understanding is that I’d calm down and adjust, but that is hard to believe. And that the scrutiny I expect won’t necessarily even be there. At the same time I’ve heard people mention displeasure or arousal about others’ bodies in the beach. Eeeek, that’s a little scary to me, Chris. So I ask you how you can get disgusted by the sight of the beautiful human body. —> I’m not, necessarily. I imagine nothing the bodies and politely not staring, and resisting judgment. At the same time we are human. Are you feeling the same way about anything else God created? —> Never. Good point. Then why is the human anatomy the only exception? Why do you think that you should cover it with articles of clothing? You choose to live with our beautiful bodies covered up by artificial guards and facades that hide our true beauty and who we really are. We should accept each other. If we all just did this, we would not even need clothes. —> society and church and custom trained us to sexualized and shame our nudity. —> I might struggle to sit beside my man on a beach blanket while he felt very “naturally” aroused about naked women before his eyes. I admit this would possibly be a serious bummer. If you agree with me at all, and how it can improve humanity, then you need to just do it! You need to feel more comfortable with yourself and others. —> I can certainly see the potential freedom and joy in it. One more thing you should consider, is how you were created and also how everything else was. Why is everything else beautiful? —> this is a beautiful message I would love to live in a world where we all could have the freedom of choice and all accept and love one another, and live in a wonderful society that could all not judge each other strictly on the outer shell. What about you? —> hell yes After all what is more important, the outer or inner person? Do you agree? —> absolutely the inner self is more important, and the older I get the more I feel that. Part III – My comments back to hers. Hers are the large letters in italics and mine are the smaller ones. I would like to sincerely thank you, Miss G, for your in-depth and comprehensive response. It is the most impressive reply I have ever gotten. I am going to reply back in the same manner. Point by point. Let's begin, Miss G: SOCIETY HAS CREATED OUR PERCEPTION OF NUDITY BEING SEXUAL OR “BAD”. CRIMINAL EVEN. SHAMEFUL. GENITALS AND BREASTS AS “FORBIDDEN FRUIT”. AND SO MANY OF US SEE THEM AND ARE TITILLATED OR SHOCKED OR JUST FIND IT OUT OF PLACE. I LIKE THAT YOU ARE CHALLENGING THIS THINKING. I LOVE TO EXPAND MY MIND AND LOOK AT A THING FROM ALL FACETS. ULTIMATELY I’D LIKE TO ENJOY THE FREEDOM OF NUDISM, PARTICULARLY THE FREEDOM FROM POOR BODY IMAGE THAT STARTS SO YOUNG AND HAS PLAGUED ME IN MANY SERIOUS WAYS. Chris This is a dam shame. It’s only because of our outdated ways of thinking from the puritanical days of the pilgrims. We need to update our thinking to present times and start to think in the 21st century. Why should certain aspects of our bodies be forbidden when we already know what’s hidden beneath the covers that we place on ourselves? I’m glad that you want to open your mind and think from all angles, if we all could do this we would be in a much friendlier and accepting world. I really must ponder why we are the most closed minded society when it comes to this. Just look at Europe. MY INITIAL REACTION RIGHT NOW WAS TO RECOIL FROM THIS CONCEPT. FEAR OF PREDATORS…. I DON’T EVEN WANT THEIR EYES ON MY CHILD. HOWEVER, I LET MYSELF IMAGINE THAT FAMILIES ARE MY GOOD FRIENDS. GOOD PROTECTIVE PARENTS THAT I NEED NOT FEAR. MY MIND NUDGED OPEN A LITTLE If you get the courage to try just once to go to a family-friendly nudist resort, you would put your mind and ease and see that we are all safe from this worry and observe the other families and see just how much (or lack thereof) that people including children are in actuality NOT leered at or gawked at. Thanks for nudging your mind open a bit, that's all I'm asking and you can step in with one toe at a time if that makes you more comfortable. MY PARENTS WERE QUITE NAKED EVEN IF WE KIDS WEREN’T REALLY. I WAS ACCUSTOMED TO IT AT 9-YEARS-OLD WHEN THEY DIVORCED. I DISTINCTLY RECALL VISITING MY DAD AT HIS NEW APARTMENT. HE WAS NAKED, AND ON THE PHONE TALKING WITH HIS NEW GIRLFRIEND. I WAS DRESSED. SHE ASKED HIM IF HE WAS NAKED IN FRONT OF ME. HE SAID “YES, BUT LENA’S ALWAYS SEEN ME LIKE THIS THOUGH”. HIS GIRLFRIEND SOMEHOW LET HIM KNOW IT WASN’T APPROPRIATE. FROM THAT MOMENT ON I THOUGHT OF NUDITY AS A NO-NO. I LITERALLY RECALL LOOKING AT MY DAD’S NAKED BODY DURING THAT PHONE CALL THINKING “OH. THIS IS A BAD THING. OKAY.” NEVER HAD MY FATHER EVER IN ANYWAY BEEN INAPPROPRIATE TOWARD ME IN A SEXUAL MANNER. HIS GIRLFRIEND MIGHT HAVE DONE WELL TO MIND HER OWN DAMN BUSINESS. I agree this girlfriend should have kept her dam mouth shut by all means. If you and your father were ok with it, then who is she to instill her morals and beliefs upon you? You went further to indicate that your relationship with your father was totally appropriate. So what was the problem until she stuck her nose where it didn’t belong? AGREED. I WAS NAKED AROUND BOTH KIDS UNTIL MY SON BEGAN TO PROTEST. I RESPECT HIS WISHES AND I AM DRESSED. Children only emulate what they are taught, so I am curious why your son would even protest. He had to have some influence from his dad or school or somewhere. SEXUALITY IS THE FARTHEST THING FROM HER MIND, SHE’S JUST MORE COMFORTABLE THIS WAY. Exactly my point this is the way I feel more comfortable too, it had absolutely NOTHING to do with sex or sexuality at all. MANY WILL GET HUNG UP ON SOCIETY’S DEFINITION OF BEAUTY AT THIS POINT. I ADMIT THAT I AM. I THINK THE HUMAN BODY IS MIRACULOUS, BUT NOT NECESSARILY ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL. My argument is simply this: Who created us ( human bodies)? more than likely the answer is god. Good, if so, then does a supreme omnipotent being make mistakes? If our bodies are mistakes, then he is not so omnipotent or supreme, is he? If not, then, why is everything else he created beautiful except our bodies? Beauty is always subjective. “eye of the beholder” SOCIETY AND CHURCH AND CUSTOM TRAINED US TO be SEXUALIZED AND SHAME OUR NUDITY. Again this is what we must move away from. old thinking old times, fresh thinking fresh views. Can you imagine if technology stood back and never developed, Where would we be? I MIGHT STRUGGLE TO SIT BESIDE MY MAN ON A BEACH BLANKET WHILE HE FELT VERY “NATURALLY” AROUSED ABOUT NAKED WOMEN BEFORE HIS EYES. I ADMIT THIS WOULD POSSIBLY BE A SERIOUS BUMMER. Only if he is thinking in a purely sexual context, but nudists do not think like this. I have heard that it usually doesn’t happen and it's something that can’t be helped if it does. I have heard both ways, either cover it up with a towel or go into the water, OR it's a natural bodily function with us men and just not pay attention to it. We have very little control of it if any at all. I CAN CERTAINLY SEE THE POTENTIAL FREEDOM AND JOY IN IT. You don’t know how correct you are! Once you try it you will love it and never go back. Once I have skinny-dipped I now refuse to wear a suit. Wearing something in the water is the most ridiculous absurd thing I have ever heard. THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMPLIMENTS ABSOLUTELY THE INNER SELF IS MORE IMPORTANT, AND THE OLDER I GET THE MORE I FEEL THAT. Then it's been settled you need to go out and just do it as I did. AS they say, you go girl!!! “Nudism has been hidden away for far too long. It's time people were allowed to live their lives as they want rather than be dictated to.” – Roland Brown Miss G says, “Chris you are a fabulous spokesperson for nudism. So encouraging and kind. Not to mention adorable. I have a vision of me naked in the bushes with only one toe peeking out. Soon two. Later three. You get the picture. Meanwhile my naked friend Chris lays/sleeps in the sun patiently waiting.” I have also written this under a different title originally, To wit: You should do it nudely not lewdly.

This is absolutely correct!!! Which one are you? Is it possible to be both? Well, actually, there ARE some of us that are both. However, personally, "I am ALWAYS NUDE, but NEVER NAKED!" Reason being, I have always considered nude to be more tasteful, while naked is more shameful. I will explain the difference, because I use both of them as well. However, the context is crucial. First, Nude: always used when showing proper respect & appreciation for OUR human form and when referring to tasteful art. Don't you agree? For example, I have heard of "tasteful nudity," but never "tasteful nakedity." Since it's tasteful, it's showing proper respect for ALL OUR beautiful anatomy.   Conversely, Naked: a totally different context. I think of a completely distinct dynamic since it just doesn't carry the same dignity and respect the way nude does. Keep in mind that many of us assume this to be true, after all, there are many nudists and naturists, but no "nakedists."  Also, when I heard long ago from a photographer that, "Nude is art, naked is dirty," that really sealed the deal for me. The reason naked doesn't assert the same acclaim as nude does, is I always consider the shame of the bible. Adam and Eve, were naked, if you remember, while being ashamed of defying god. In this context, I envision a dirty primal animal, because I have also heard of the series, "naked and afraid" NOT "nude and afraid." Remember context? You may agree, it's proper for naked, to describe an environment that is animalistic or primal, like the instincts of a wild animal way out in the jungle, on the hunt. The "shit that makes it stink" is attaching it to PORN, which is distasteful and offensive. This is what ignorant textiles unjustly correlate us, nudists, with. Because oblivious textiles don't have any concept or appreciation of what nudism is, they just improperly assume sex and porn as soon as they hear naked. If they did not equate these together, then showing your true authentic human form would not be so "TABOO" and "FORBIDDEN." So, there you have it, put into the simplest terms, the difference between the two: Nude and Naked. Two entirely different sides of the spectrum. Now that you know what nude and naked are, we should also know how to get "Open and Free." WAIT! What was that? OPEN & What....? You are really perplexed to what I am talking about Put in the simplest terms: --> "nude." But I always have to be different and "outside" the box. But allow me to explain: "Open and Free." The real reason is, that's exactly how I feel when not concealing my anatomy, behind the cloaks we are forced us to hide ourselves with shame.  Was the human body created in God's image?  so why would I be ashamed of what he gave me? A divine gift that should revel us with honor and dignity We should accept our body with PRIDE, but most, if not all, of us shame and hide it like its some primary source of embarrassment that we are forbidden to see. OPEN is, being totally, completely honest with who you are, instead of concealing yourself with fake facades that superficial shallow society always force us to wear. FREE is, flying high as a bird, far above the ground with no restrictions, and absolutely nothing binding or restricting my movements. Now we will "uncover" today's key point. Why are you ashamed of what HE gave you, being such a divine source? I am proud of certain attributes of mine. Allow me to sum it up, For the attributes of your beautiful body that you cannot change, you must deal with it and accept it as your own. For the other features that you can change, work diligently on shaping them up to your own satisfaction & standards. This evening, I will close with that. Good night. Love you BOTH, Christopher

Starting with December 2018 and continuing through the following year, I have been spending a lot of time in my new life, learning, as well as learning some more! Ten things I have learned this year: My dominant was a great experience for me but he was not my perfect match. Met a man who is going to leave me. Learned a lot from Scott about standing up for myself as I deserve respect. People come into your life for a while then can leave as quickly as they came. I can fall in and out of love fast, and this was the very year I did for the 1st time. The one who I looked up to at one time, I no longer do, as there are no more feelings for him, after such a brief period in my life. Started a great daily journal for reflection on my interesting, & wild, life story. I can meet good people, while also recognizing the ones who are using me to help themselves. The best ones retain my friendship. Learned how to love writing and put my thoughts into words. Perfected, well not quite, the art of writing and was invited as an author on nudeandhappy.com Composed my BEST work, MY Sublime Experience, Dec 19, 2019 Thank you all for teaching me as I go. Some of you have really encouraged me, and I will continue to persist & follow through!

Written by Christopher Jeremiah One Sunday, at church, I met a fine young lady whose open-mindedness inspired me to share an uncommon practice that is very dear to me. After she mentioned that she was open to trying other encounters, it delighted me to inform her I like to be, “open and free” as often as I can, wishing I could have another to join me. She was puzzled. I then expressed that it means being totally nude, as this is what it feels to be liberated without barriers and facades to others. I perform this as frequently as I can to be sincere, while also receptive to others, being unrestricted as much as possible. I am also open because I am my true genuine self, without artificial boundaries, barriers or masks that hide who I truly am, hence “open and free.” I declared that this state is as natural as you can get, not in any way immoral, yet is also freeing, equalizing and honest. If more of us would open up and be ourselves, we would be much happier people since we all could live by choice instead of being forced to live in conflict. After all, if clothes make the person, then nudity makes us all more equal together. Very much to my pleasant surprise, it turns out that she, too, loves the freedom of nudity and on Friday, October 25th, 2019, after some slight hesitation, she decided to share my invigorating and liberating experience with me as well. She is more than able to comprehend the ecstasy of letting her false cloaks subside that we all must hide our genuine beauty within. The moment we both were without our mutual facades, we found pure bliss in the new state we were in together. I was absolutely enraptured and enchanted that she was the very 1st lady to join me in my authentic form. Our first feeling was pure freedom and exhilaration! It was a glorious experience to be totally free of the masks that hide who we truly are. We were overjoyed to let go of our own inhibitions that we all, unfortunately, have. If I may reiterate, she and I met in church, and came together as new friends, in a very open and respectful manner in which we were both vulnerable, shedding our insecurities and inhibitions. Our experience of exhilaration was executed properly with mutual admiration. We felt entirely at ease with each other, with the thought of shame not crossing our minds even negligibly. I would encourage you to step into this lifestyle gradually with whatever way you feel most comfortable while trying it for the first time. It is such a phenomenal feeling, words can not even explain it. I will, however, attempt to make you comprehend why you must try to be "open and free" with yourself and hopefully others in your life. Please be attentive, I will attempt my utmost to justify why you must try. Our hearts raced at the simple freedom we felt inside as our awareness of the certainty of our similarities were revealed. We stood in awe of our pure ambiance. Our mutual space became a different place, much simpler, uncomplicated and free, whereby we both accepted each other for who we are. We both understood our nakedness is exquisite and alluring with absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. It is so easy to comprehend why it is so liberating to be free of the restrictions of society. When you just let your guards down and finally just be you, the true you that has no protections in place to hide who you truly are, you expose the genuine, deep down person who people will accept. You will be elated to undergo a unique transformation that you will never, ever forget. Step back and attempt to imagine making love without the physical aspect. You are sharing yourself while exposing your vulnerability. Your partner is doing the same for you. Once you share yourself with another, you can then, and only then, experience the genuine feeling that only tasteful nudity brings to your innermost spirit. It brings serenity to your emotional and spiritual wellbeing. This can only occur on the deepest levels of your soul. Have you ever experienced equality? Have you ever stood next to a political figure or a doctor or even a lawyer in your life? Did you feel equal at all? You were aware of his immense knowledge of his particular specialty. You probably were apprehensive to even utter a single word! When you are totally nude, you are equal in every sense! There is no arbitrary uniform to designate who has authority or power over another. There are strictly equal nudists who all have the same feelings and vulnerabilities as anyone does. Imagine sitting in a room with an intimate group of people and being truthful with everyone about who you are. You apprise the small group about your deepest darkest secrets and perplexities, yet they still accept you for who you are and they feel the unavowed feelings that make you feel so vulnerable inside. With nudism, however, the only difference is that you are not conveying your enigmas in speech, but rather in an art form. The others who are around you are just as vulnerable as you, because our own bodies dissatisfy us more than it does others, in some aspects. Most of the time we are hard on ourselves, more so than others are. After the initial anxiety of the unveiling wears off, you are much more relaxed and you see that the other person is just as imperfect as you are. We are all imperfect, this very fact makes us all unique, yet we are all the same. The male and female anatomy is very similar in nature, aside from the TABOO areas of our bodies. We all realize what we all have, and it is just a matter of different shapes and sizes. It is these two areas that seem to be the focus of attention. If we can get past such superficial nonsense like these and realize that none of us is perfect, which is the very essence of humanity, and just accept our brothers and sisters for who we all are, then we all could live in such a prosperous, much more accepting world. You cannot even fathom the allure and elegance we could all experience. If you look inside the individual, past the erroneous outer shell, and look at what really makes us all the good people we are, you will see what really is pertinent to your judgment of others. Judge, if you must, on their morality, character, beliefs, and values instead of their outer case, which has no impact on the elements that you should be interested in. Oh, I will convey one more pertinent declaration before I hear any immature imbeciles and their ignorant remarks. Do not think for an instant we are incapable or do not have the primal attraction to the opposite sex. Because we are both open to intimacy with partners of the same and/or opposite sex, it allows us to be open to intimacy with each other. The certitude that both sexes attract us, spiritually and also physically, is irrelevant when it pertains to nudism. Again, the practice of the nudism lifestyle is not a sexual agenda. It is freedom of self and appreciation of others that are of like minds. True nudists grasp the difference between “exposing themselves,” and “exposing themselves to the art and freedom of nudism,” in a proper and respectful demeanor. Contrary to what most people think, nudism isn't sexually based, but a way of life. Well, obviously, we both had a phenomenal time in our mutual experience, and we were both very mature and respectful of each other. It is unfortunate that nudist men are a source of fear for women. This prevents a lot of women from trying it. I assume that it’s also the reason why most single men are not very welcome at these venues, such as the many resorts that discriminate against us guys. Most nudist men, however, are much more dignified than the men of the exterior world, outside of the nudist resorts. If any textiles are perusing my writing, I hope this article can help you understand that nudism has nothing to do with lustful desires, sexual connotations or impure thoughts that many of you consider. AND That it creates the feeling of openness in your soul so you might try it out. After all, the only regret I have with nudity is that I waited so long to try it. Also, if my fellow nudists, naturists or naturalists had the pleasure of scrutinizing my conveyance of our mutual lifestyle, what did you think? Did I miss anything? Was it presented in a tasteful proper manner? I will never see it in my lifetime, but maybe someday all of us, nudists and textiles in unison, can live with the freedom of choice instead of being forced by govt regulation to conceal ourselves, hiding who we truly are, while we all experience peace, love, and joy for the first time ever!

I'm that nice guy you always seek when needed, otherwise, invisible. Yes, I'm ALWAYS the only one... ...here for you to share your thoughts with. ...who listens when you need me. ...that you express your concerns and emotions to. ...who really cares about you at the deepest level. ...that you confide in when you get lugubrious enough to confer your feelings to. Yes! Absolutely, that’s why I am always here for you, while the other guy that treats you subserviently is always the only one who has you in his life permanently. He is the ONLY one... ...who gets YOUR heart incessantly. ...who has you perceiving yourself negatively by making you feel you need him. ...that can make you feel inferior to him. ...who does not let you feel positive or content in your life. ...who makes you feel you must serve him while he won't reciprocate. But I am always here for you anytime you need me for anything, yet, I am never the one to hear “I do” from you, as you continue to say “I do” to him, while you feel miserable that he never lets you feel loved, just needed. Apparently, YOU do not want ME in your life because you always go back to him repeating your viscous cycle perpetually, after you finish up with me.

A beautiful warm evening proceeded in a small city in Colorado as a gentle breeze felt so glorious running through the trees far below the backyard, as the partiers ate the appetizers and sipped their drinks as their whistles were getting wet. Lets join the party already in progress Paragraph 1 The night was winding down, as the few ones left, tired from the 6 hour party. Most of the people at the party left, and I was a little tired after my playtime with Roxanna. I was still ok but I am not superman. I wasn't sure, but most of the night this new guy Walt was glancing at me. I am thinking to myself, "Great, does this mean some guy has the hots for me, that's all I need to top off a less than perfect evening." After all, I usually have the energy to handle Roxanna and Lori, but tonight my game was a little off. I am a little lethargic tonight, unusual for me. As I was trying to get out the door, Lucy asked me about work and the reports, "Dam how boring, Lucy can't this wait?", I am thinking to myself. She finally shuts up and leaves. Finally, I get my chance to get the hell out of here. I dart for the door and what happens? It turns out that the quick chat with Lucy that had stalled me just enough to remain in the house just a few minutes longer. Now, just as I worried about Walt asking for some help with cleaning up before I leave, he does exactly that. Since I am the type that hates to say no, I help him a little and when we finish up we get to talking while sitting on the couch and he asks me the question! "What's your experience with men?" Oh shit, I knew it! What do I say? Do I just play him off like, "Hell, man, do I look like a homo or something?" OR do I just give in to my pent up urges and curiosity to try it and can then say I did? I mean, what do I do now? Well, this is an erotica story, so if I say no, this story won't lead anywhere. So I'm like, "Ok, Walt, I have a little experience." Then he quips right back at me, "No, you don't, I can tell, I've been keeping my eye on you all evening." Great! Now, I'm thinking I just pissed him off by insulting his intelligence. Before I screw up anymore, I just give in and... Paragraph 2 ....We go into the bedroom and after discussing briefly what we were going to do, I stripped, my absolute favorite thing to do, and he slowly yet firmly ties me to the bed, spread eagle. It wasn't long before he blindfolded me too, then there I was totally helpless. A great feeling since it is part of my fantasy. It is at this point where I am glad that someone knew where I was, otherwise I'm not sure if I would have trusted him to tie me and especially blindfold me. After I was pleasantly subdued, I felt him caress my body lightly with his hands and fingertips. I have had this done before, but we called it "mowing the lawn." This procedure is going back and forth, lightly caressing him with my gentle fingers first on his ass, gradually working my way down his legs, and finally his feet. I felt his 8 oz. sirloin tube steak go into my mouth slowly but surely. I could not believe the feeling, I don't know what was happening, but this was far more enjoyable than the stuff I have had my entire life. It was right there in my face, or actually my mouth in this case, and delicious as sweetmeat. As he keeps thrusting it back and forth, I feel mine getting up, ready for some action. After that toe-curling experience for a while, he slowly blew me in return and it was fucking exceptional as I loved his cock and having my tongue all over it. I think that I really don't care if I'm playing for both teams now, the oral just feels to dam fucking unbelievably awesome to even care at this point. Oral is turning into my FAVORITE activity to perform, I could go all night if I had to, say 2-3 hours at least. When there was a knock on the door, I nearly jumped out of my skin, but this was also when I knew I could trust him because he let my right hand go free, in case he couldn't make it back in time. Once he came back, I knew he was trustworthy, so I let him tie me back up to prolong this euphoric experience. After playing a while like about 2 hours at least, he finally got off on my chest and it was wonderful. He let me loose just enough to place my hands over his wonderful manly presence. By this time I was getting really hot and aroused, I didn't care what or who I was, I just wanted to continue to feel myself in total ecstasy. I adored blowing him and at some point, we 69'd for a bit. Now, at this point, I know I have to at least be BI, but not at all ashamed by what I was doing and feeling. I couldn't believe this is what I have been missing out on my entire life. Ok, time for you to decide and make the call. True or concocted? There are only 2 possibilities here: Pick ONLY one My 1st genuine step into my long, arduous yet gratifying kinky fetish journey OR I totally fabricated a falsehood better than my previous erotica "My Rope Fantasy" It's up to YOU to determine if this whole enticing adventure is.... TRUE or is it FABRICATED? YOU DECIDE!!

We have a dilemma to ponder. Put BI on your profile, being honest with yourself and others? OR Inform them you are Hetero or Homo, being dishonest from the start? After reading, The pros and cons of BISEXUALITY it gives four pros and six cons of indicating your actual sexuality on your profiles.. Six vs four? That's already discouraging. Since I like to depart on a positive note, we'll start with the cons first. CONS Under these, the six are basically the same. No one is interested if you are forthright with others, including dating or even if you already have a romantic partner. If you are keeping it secret, dating is challenging. The only other con is that you (NEVER me) will get propositioned for threesomes. Of course, if this is appealing, then it is really a pro for you. PROS You never have to be concerned with the "coming out" dilemma. Your date already is aware of your orientation. This means they are still interested and just fine with you. Showing you are self-confident about who you are, this may even attract more quality people to you. Now, saving the BEST for last, the other PRO, is attracting other BI people. This is my dream! If I ever came across a BI babe, I would never let her go! Can you imagine ALL the fun times we could have together? Is is rare that BISEXUALS will actually reject others of their same inclination, as indicated in my BISEXUALS love us BOTH, but it can happen. In being honest, I will say that I always put BI on my profiles, however, I have not been dating since I cant find interested parties of either sex. MEN are usually looking for sex, never love. WOMEN NEVER ever look in my direction or even know that I exist. They don't give me the time of day. Also, there may be a modicum that are actually into BISEXUAL men, but MOST are repulsed by us, BI GUYS. So keep this in mind too. Love you BOTH, Christopher

Today, June 16th, 2019, would be my Dad's 50th father's day. But since an evil, vile demon took my Dad from me way too soon, He won't be joining us ever again. He was always there for me during the different situations that caused me undue stress, during turbulent situations as I was growing up. The first time I can remember, I was a mere 10-year-old boy in a bowling league with my peers. When I got into an argument with one of them on my team, after being pushed to the ground, I left the bowling alley and went to the first place that I saw to call home. This was back when cell phones were not even invented yet. The first place I came upon, Jonathan's was very intimidating, as it was a bar that was not in the greatest area. But in a matter of minutes after my call home, my Dad courageously entered and accompanied me back to the bowling alley to have me resolve the problem on my own with Eric, my assailant. He stood His ground during conflicts, which made Him the great man He always was. Even though an imbecile raised his bat to torment my fabulous Father, instead of inciting a dispute, Dad simply recorded the plate number of the perpetrator's car before He left to go call the cops. He would not start any fight because he said that it would give me the wrong idea about arguing with another, with me being so young and impressionable there in the face of conflict. He always handled the situation appropriately, with patience and candor to resolve the problem before it escalated. I asked Him why He did nothing and He said, "It takes strength to be kind and gentle, especially in front you, son." Then later in life when I was straight out of high school then into the military, as He was the one that talked me into joining, He came to my aid yet again. I was striving to be an outstanding soldier in the army, but the Captain & 1st SGT were very adamant about me being ejected after a conflict ensued between me and my platoon Sgt, but I would have lost all my military benefits. My Dad drove from Vega$ to Oklahoma to make sure that they did not wrongfully discharge me. He met with the CPT and I remembered He sat down with him and spoke about my continuing service in line for the role of specialist, E4. I marched into the captain's office and saluted, as he always expected me to. Whatever magic my Dad implemented must have worked, since eventually the CPT had agreed to let me stay & continue to be a great specialist in my field. But in 1995 it all changed. I had to grow up instantly into a man whether or not I was ready, as my Dad was taken away from me too abruptly and unjustly. Being so sudden, all it took was 3 deadly rounds to His body, with the fatal one right through His brain! This was Sunday night around 7pm and even made the news both locally and as far as PA and NY. Then, since I knew nothing transpired the night before, on a very early Monday morning while I was working, Ron, a family friend, came to my workplace and he was very serious. I could already sense something wasn't quite right. He just got straight to the point. "I will just tell you straight out, Your Dad's dead." I was just 25. At this point, I could not have even imagined that He was just blatantly murdered in COLD fucking blood! Someone blatantly took away a man that was always beyond reproach from me in an instant, quicker than the blink of an eye.. He was a better man His entire life than I will EVER be. His best friend Gary said, during His eulogy, that "He was so gentle He couldn't even hurt a fly." Gary was absolutely CORRECT!! The only reason the vile evil monster took Him away from us down here was that He was trying to assist His mother from a dangerous situation. There was no way to seek justice with the merciless assassin who had been drinking and on drugs, above the law and committed suicide, thus alleviating any recourse at all. So, this barbarian murdered 2 people, then killed himself. It's really a fucking shame that this barbaric demon could not have done this BEFORE the assassinations. It would have been much more humane to his 2 victims, leaving them both alive and well. His atrocious, merciless actions caused a "double homicide - suicide" This inhumane malicious incubus took the only local family I had. To this very day, 35 lonely years later, I am still the only member of my family in town. Isn't that just the best fucking scenario taken from me, leaving me alone with NO one? However, I want to express my sincere gratitude and appreciation to you, Dad, for being there for me and teaching me how to be strong. If I never learned strength from you, I would have been up there with you by now! But, not understanding what keeps me here, I still live in misery. "Just be KIND & GENTLE, son." Thanks DAD for having the utmost patience with me and taking the time to be a part of my life as a great mentor and teacher to me and my brother. Why is the saying, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder," so true? Love you so much for your perseverance in raising your two sons. I wish I could have been more like you. But I am the total opposite. Love, Your sons

He was my genuine friend and my personal Dominant in my life. The following is my POV on what makes a Dom totally exceptional. I completely admired and respected my Dom, when He filled that role. After we met at a play party one night during Dec '18, He took me to a pool the very next day comforting me. It was right then when He promised me He would look out for me and help me with my shortcomings while teaching me many beneficial lessons. We had our D/s roles for around a year, but He didn't want to settle down with just 1 person. So as He distanced himself from me, I ended up meeting someone else and our roles ceased. He taught me many things, and He even keeps in touch, still helping me occasionally. The story below was a piece I wrote a while back while we were still together. An exceptional Dom starts with the mutual respect afforded to BOTH parties. I require this condition before entering into any future D/s relationship. The proper training of their sub and the patient mutual understanding that they will give you are paramount. Even if you keep making mistakes, the dedicated, patient Dom will take your efforts into consideration and do what's best for BOTH of you. The way they are very passionate about training their sub properly is the best way to reach out to their sub. Even with mutual respect, I feel if you are going to be a good submissive, your primary goal should be to please your Dom and follow his directives. If He respects you, He will not guide you down the wrong path. If He did, He could lose you somehow, like injury or arrest, for example. Losing his dedicated, loyal sub is not in his best interest. We had a slightly different dynamic than most in the same type of relationship. The difference being we only had our roles during playtime, not 24/7! On Wednesday, April 17, 2019, was the best time in our relationship that we had ever hoped for because He was pleased more than ever. He said, "what you did the past 5 minutes-was perfect!" It overjoyed me I had pleased Him. I had sucked His........................ TANTALIZING TOES!! It was an amazing experience for both of us. My response was, "Thanks daddy It is my honor to please you as your loyal submissive." He loved his ass played with and he was patient enough to explain His needs regarding His back massage and rear end. I tended to his back first. He told me to "mow the lawn." This maneuver is back and forth, light tracing while caressing Him with my fingers on his ass, his legs and his feet. As long as I was lightly caressing his body, He also needed his balls played with & this is the best way heat him up. We both know that lightly touching the balls is very erotic and sensual as we agreed that it's so important that we have the same bodies as we know the feeling of our identical equipment, unlike heterosexuals who do not have the same sensations as one another. He required an open relationship between us to allow us to play with others. FWB, BF (Best Friend), and roommate are just a few of the relationships we hold together. It really doesn't matter what terminology I use. He is an Aquarian and if you're knowledgeable about astrology; you realize that Aquarians place importance on friendship much as another places on family. So our bond was tighter than a virgin. I usually have too much on my occupied mind to get focused on just one thing at a time, so He tells me to concentrate, slow down, and take a deep breath in order to oxygenate my brain. Since He noticed how much I always concentrated on Him, He would bring it to my attention when He was very pleased with me. I had actually just started falling for Him, on this Wednesday eve in April, as He had the key to my heart for a moment. It was the first time I had ever had those types of feelings for anyone. My feelings had gotten stronger by the week. I was striving to be a part of the kinky community in which I met Him that night at the party. I felt exhilarated having Him by my side as my own personal Dom. I gave Him all my effort to show that I was His best sub. He had always told me that the proper way to reach out to people is to mirror their body language while I mimic them. I impressed him with my constant performance many times as I tried to concentrate on His needs to be a great fit together. He was a significant experience in my life, and influenced me because he had the strategy to make things happen correctly and solve the problem at hand so He could get me to calm down. He claims He always stays 7 moves ahead of His colleagues and rivals while He helped me to think about what the consequences would be and do what is best. Before His expert guidance, I would always lash out with bitter vengeance with disastrous results most of the time. His fetish: wrestling mine: rope bondage. Although He never satisfied my fetish, we were always performing His, and would almost always hold me tight in His arms or legs. I succumbed to His needs for wrestling so he could:: hold me tight against my resistance or limp with my submission. It was my pleasure to submit to Him while he would hold me tight with His powerful arm holds along with His skill. He always made me feel wanted, needed and loved as He always nurtured and cared for me. It was great while it lasted, but all pleasurable experiences must halt at some point.

My label and ME! The link directly above takes you to MY very OWN, and MY VERY 1st, article I wrote, that was EVER published about me, and my chosen lifestyle. Metro.co.uk explains their Labels project: Labels is an exclusive series that hears from individuals who have been labelled – whether that be by society, a job title, or a diagnosis. Throughout the project, writers will share how having these words ascribed to them shaped their identity — positively or negatively — and what the label means to them. Giving some background to my story above, just after finishing another label article on BISEXUALITY, I contacted Jess, the editor, and expressed an interest in doing my very own label article, also since they already had produced one on BISEXUALITY, I suggested I write one about my NEWD lifestyle. After Jess graciously agreed with my proposal, she published my article after about a year, being just 2 days away from my birthday! I thank you, Jess, for allowing me the exposure on your labels series, explaining my lifestyle, and hopefully, making the public, more knowledgeable after reading my own labels story. Twitter: https://twitter.com/MetroUK

This is my all-time favorite fantasy about being tied down to the bed spread eagle with both feet and hands tied to the 4 corners of the bed, involving different people each having a unique task to perform. Your function is to do none other than, Guess which character I am. Young at heart, Ricky enjoyed being tied down and used for pleasure. His birthday was coming up and being his 21st, it was going to be very special. Sam, his best friend of over 10 years, knew something of Ricky's fetishes and forbidden fantasies. He wanted him to have a very special birthday this year being his 21st. He already planned something very special for a "one of a kind" surprise. He needed help from at least five others to make it totally fucking exceptional. He just happened to be house sitting for relatives, so he knew he had to make his fantasy come true on Saturday night on the 21st of April. The master bedroom had plenty of space, about 200 sq ft, Sam arranged his friends to help with the scene. It was going to be perfect. This was less of a challenge since Ricky was bisexual and was open to both. Sam remembered that Ricky loved being restrained with rope, but he never got to explore this particular fetish. Sam knew just the guy to help with this very kink. He called his old friend from high school, who just studied rigging, the art of tying rope for 8 years, He would call his rigger friend first before anyone else. Todd, his rigger friend, being a hot stud completely smooth all over except for the hair on his head and some minimal pubic hair, was a mutual friend of both Sam and Ricky. They knew Todd from high school over 8 years ago, and he wanted very much to be a part of Ricky's special party after hearing about it from Sam. He was going to be perfect since Ricky loved younger, sweeter, smoother guys. Todd loved the idea of tying him up for his special day. Christopher and Christine, a married couple, that love to swing and being that she loves cock worship while he always gets into anal play, the two of them would give Ricky some intense pleasure that he would never forget. Sam knew he just could not forget to have Carrie and Kathy over to gratify Ricky's feet. Both of them were in their 20s and loved feet with a passion. They were always asking Sam if they could massage his feet, since they had a foot fetish. Carrie loves to please toes orally, while Kathy was a masseuse by trade. This was about to become a reality, but Sam couldn't bring everything together without more planning and experience. He had to consider someone with the organizing ability he needed. He knew of one guy who was not only good at organizing events, but was also very dominant. Ken was the one that he immediately considered. Sam remembered him from an event he attended a few months back. When Sam asked him to come to the party, it just so happened that Ken also knew of Tammy, a lady friend of his, who loves to command guys to do many unique, crazy, and very kinky acts. Since they both knew what they were doing, Sam invited both just to be safe. Both of them would set the scene and oversee everything. They would run the show down to the finest detail. If they say it, everyone better obey it! Ricky's fantasy would not fail! The big night is finally upon us and about 2 hours before Ricky's arrival, Ken and Tammy both show up right on time. After perusing the area, they both set the scene. They brief everyone, so each one knows exactly what their assigned task is. Before anyone touches anything, The most important task is having Carrie and Kathy confirm everything is clean and sanitized while they prepare the massage oils. Next, Todd sets up the ropes and ties the knots to prep everything. Lastly, Chris and Christine get all the toys together. They actually have 20 minutes to spare before the birthday boy arrives. As Sam invites Ricky into the house at 9 pm, he feels a fresh breeze run through his hair. It's a perfect crisp evening of a beautiful 70 degrees F. He decides it's so lovely out that he can leave the windows open and let the delightful outside air fill the room with its ambiance. After Sam shows him around, they finally end up in the bedroom and Ricky notices ropes on the bed and asks about them. Sylvester invites, "Try them on?" "But first you must be "open & free" "What?" Ricky asks. "It means bare ass naked." he asserts. Ricky consents as Sam ties him up on the bed, spread eagle nice and tight, right after he strips. Ricky has always trusted Sylvester implicitly, so he does as he is told. After Sam ties him up, he blindfolds him while two candles on each side of the room, one lavender and the other jasmine, both disperse pleasant aromas into the air. As these pleasant aromas delight Ricky, he feels some light caressing and touching as he senses a few pairs of hands exploring his entire body, starting with his head, slowly down his chest through his crotch and down his legs all the way to his toes. Unbeknownst to Ricky, everyone is getting into position and about to start. He suddenly hears some vibration, as he feels it coming up his leg as it heads straight for his junk. Then suddenly he feels some marvelous manmeat shoved fast and hard, perfectly filling his mouth being shoved while Tammy yells out, "you better just open up and enjoy it!" As Todd forces Ricky to blow him, Ricky can't help but to let out a dramatic, intense moan as he engulfs Todd's fat cock head. Next, he feels another sensation on his own cock as Christine performs fellatio on Ricky. Watching from the sidelines, Sam can only imagine how his best friend must feel as if he performs 69, since Ricky blows Todd while simultaneously Christine blows Ricky. Blindfolded, Ricky has no idea who is blowing him and doesn't even know who or how many were joining him for his passionate event. He didn't even know Christine or Christopher were even in the room. She was getting so wild for his cock that her hands cupped his balls and wrapping her legs around his right leg. He felt a vibe being slowly inserted into his tight ass, feeling so fucking glorious! He feels an erotic orgasm building as he tries to control himself. This only confuses Ricky more since he couldn't tell if she was operating the vibe or if there were 2 people down in that area. As Christopher gently moves the vibe slightly back and forth, Ricky experiences intense euphoria. While Chris works with the vibe, Christine works with her tongue as she puts Ricky's cock slowly into her mouth, going up and down his shaft while literally blowing on his cute cock head on the end of each stroke. This lasted a long time but notwithstanding. It startles Ricky, as Ken's voice crackles the scene and the quiet night, while commanding the two girls, Carrie and Kathy, to begin on his toes. Ken orders Carrie to suck Ricky's toes while Kathy begins massaging his feet. Ken demands better performance from both Carrie and Christine since his satisfaction is everyone's ultimate goal as he is controlling the entire scene. In all his 20+ years as a Dom, Ken has never seen better performance from such a fine group. Ken is completely respectable since he has no rules except to listen to him intently without question or hesitation. His specialty is controlling many people at a time. He loves oral play and other more sensual activities, not having to be always sexual. Overseeing massages, feet worship, and ass play are just some kinks he enjoys. Tammy loves to dominate men mostly, but enjoys watching and commanding as her voice dominates the rooms she has played in. Since Ricky is usually a giver, Sam insists that Ken keeps this entire scenario going until, and not a moment before, Ricky reaches an orgasm. As Ken and Tammy keep a watchful eye on everything, Ken observes Chris playing with Christie and commands him to focus on Ricky's tight little ass. Chris continues to pleasure Ricky while turning up the vibrations. Tammy commands the girls to work on his legs while they also work on his feet. Carrie and Kathy are only too pleased to obey while worshiping his feet. But because of the relentless stimulation all over his body simultaneously, Ricky climaxes first with the fiercest roar and moan, even startling Christine and Kathy. But secretly Sam and Ken had a bet that Ricky could shoot his hot creamy load at least twice. Sam was confident that he would win the bet and make his money back that he spent preparing this party. So, hesitantly, Ken has an idea that he discussed with Tammy. Ken, without warning, snaps his fingers and two young adults come out of nowhere to be Ricky's bath slaves, and immediately clean him up for round two.