Good Day to YOU,
I'm an author who writes liberally, without fear of reprisals, while reading extensively too. I can handle anything, even incessantly running into pictures, blogs, and many more visuals.
However, I really get irate when I run into essays, blogs, and articles that are insensitive to all of us, BISEXUALS!
This article will point out the various methods in which the monosexuals are creeping into our territory and invariably erasing us out of existence. I will show you many case in points where they are found and we are NOT!
Today's theme will focus on how we are being erased, and what we must do about it.
1st off, the pie chart below, shows that BI females outnumber homo men by 2%, while BI guys outnumber the lesbians by 2%.
Therefore, combine the sexes that are BI, and we "BI far," outnumber both homosexual men and women, knocking them off the LGBT charts by OVER half!!!
We, BISEXUALS, are at 52%, while homosexuals, BOTH sexes, are only at 48%.
This # alone shows that we ARE definitely the MAJORITY!
Yet, we are 3rd in line in the LGBT acronym?
Why??
BOTH sexes that identify as homo come in at 48%, before BOTH of us, BISEXUALS, men and women.
In,
INVISIBLE MAJORITY: The Disparities Facing Bisexual People and How to Remedy Them, a report by Movement Advancement Project (MAP), and 10 other organizations were "Report Partners," finally focus on the “invisible majority” of the LGBT community, the nearly 5 million adults in the U.S. who identify as BISEXUAL
These numbers are never accurate, in that, not every BISEXUAL admits to being BI.
Especially us guys!!
Considering there is ALWAYS a double standard between the two sexes, I can see why we BI guys keep quiet. I believe we ARE the majority, also Freud, claimed that we are ALL BISEXUALS at birth, then branch out to the other two sexualities during our awakening. Unfortunately, it is impossible to arrive at any accuracy, unless we get honest people, but the stigma with us BI-guys is extremely negative with everyone lashing out at us. As you see later here, unethical and oblivious people even shun and mistreat one BI lady, who is a politician. Also, another point that blew me away will also reveal itself.
There are ALWAYS numerous examples of erasing us BISEXUALS:
As you can see above, they have a "need" to include gay, CD and even trannys??....,
but do you see any threads for Bisexuals??
NO!!
NOT even 1!!
Now, this next one reveals Hotlines,
for GAYS and LESBIANS!?
So, this means strictly HOMOs, NOT BISEXUALS, just CDs, trannys, AND GAY!!
It has EVERYONE, BESIDES BISEXUALS!!
GAYS = HOMO
LESBIANS = HOMO
So, ALL these hotlines are for HOMO only, since lesbians are female Homosexuals.
If you're GAY, simply dial 800-398-GAYS, YOUR very own hotline, just for YOU!!
If that doesn't suit you, then you can also call the one for GAYS AND LESBIANS.
So, gays have TWO hotlines, Bi's have NONE!!
I guess that's fair?
Or NOT!!
BUT, what if I'm BI???
"If you are BI, not to worry, we don't count, because all of us are being erased out of existence, unless we band together & take ACTION!"
Reasons are:
we're the invisible "majority"
we do NOT discriminate against anyone, loving both
How do all my people, BISEXUALS, feel right about now?
See anything for BISEXUALS, under LGBTQIA+?
Well, we have seen nothing for us at all, so this will continue.
This seems to include everyone under the sun!
But the 3 whole hotlines are ONLY for HOMOsexuals!
Isn't that nice to know??
Surprised?
Still think we are not being erased?
Ok,
ready for the next one?
Try this on for size...
This was a website that I discovered.
It just proves my point!!
Do you see anything at all relating to BISEXUALS???
Me neither, I wonder why.
They have everything from body fetish down to sick & disgusting naughty corner.
BUT alas, missing yet again AND again--NOTHING FOR US, BISEXUALS!!
But you're in luck if you are GAY, AGAIN AS ALWAYS!!
The below video also speaks about the about terrifying and needless suicide in our own separate BI community. He speaks about taking the B out of the LGBT. It's because the LGBT community rejects us BISEXUALS.
Whenever an adult sends a younger BISEXUAL to the LGBT community, they do not get the proper attention and resources, as this video explains.
Younger BISEXUALS have many risk factors, as this next image will disclose.
The initial one about suicide attempts "BI" youth are extremely alarming to me.
What do YOU think??
Is this what you want to see OUR YOUTH doing?
Just remember now, these are our "TOMORROW'S ADULTS."
HAPPY children = HAPPY adults
These children are NOT very "happy" to me, if they plan suicide and/or attempt it!
This is 30% to over 40% of our youth!!
"In the Still BISEXUAL event, moderated by writer and podcaster Gaby Dunn, Katie Hill talked about what she’s gone through and what she hopes to do in the future."
the article states.
"She was advised to stay closeted about being BI while running for office, even by some members of the LGBTQ+ community. She was married to a man, so that she could be seen as heterosexual."
the article relays.
“It would have been much easier to run just not addressing it, but for me, it’s an important part of my identity,”
Hill said.
However, when Kate Brown was running for governor in the state of OR, NO one had any problems with hers! The article also states that Hill, reached out to Brown, and NEVER heard back.
It is way beyond me why Katie Hill is being shunned, while Kate Brown, governor of the Beaver State, is also BI, but not privy to the same unethical treatment as her colleague.
"Bi people make up most of the LGBTQ+ community, but that’s not often recognized,"
she said.
“Many, many people don’t publicly identify as bi,” she noted, "instead of identifying as gay or straight based on the relationship they’re in."
“It’s far more socially acceptable to be gay than to be bi, still,”
she said.
HOLD ON!!
Did you catch that?
“It’s far more socially acceptable to be gay than to be bi, still?”
Seriously?
Since when?
I find this is extremely subjective!!
Why would it be more proper to be GAY than BI????!!
This just makes NO SENSE at all!!!
Let's make sure that we understand this....CORRECTLY!
It's better to exclusively love 1 (one) sex,
BUT 2?? is a NO GO????
I would venture to get an answer to,
Why is it better to love only one sex?
I do NOT comprehend why loving FEWER people is more acceptable, than loving MORE people.
Take 2 different scenarios:
1 - You love BOTH - and as you are aware,
BI is BOTH
BI is BEAUTIFUL
AND
BI is BEST!! Of course!
If you are BI, however, then society shuns you?
Now for the OTHER scenario: ---
2 - You only like/love one sex!!
So, you do NOT "love" EVERYONE, just one.
But, try this with RACE, CREED, COLOR, etc.
If you single out a specific race, etc, that you find beneath yourself, then,
others see you as a bigot, racist, or "phobia," as in "transphobia," "Biphobia" or ANY other PHOBIA!
Am I right?
BOTTOM LINE:
If you accept everyone, regarding RACE, CREED, or ethnicity etc. then that is the "norm" "which I must check what "NORM" is daily."
If you DO NOT accept EVERYONE regarding RACE and CREED, you are an outcast.
So, as I understand it,
SEXUALITY it's "required"......to love ONLY 1?
With culture, race, creed, and ethnicity,
You MUST "LOVE" EVERYONE!
BUT loving FEWER people regarding sex/gender IS acceptable?
BUT loving more people, like I do, being BI is NOT the way to go?
But Hill, was determined to be visible.
“Visibility itself, representation itself, that’s critical,”
she said.
BISEXUALS know a lot about shaming; they’re perceived as duplicitous, undecided, hypersexual, unable to be monogamous, although as with people of any other orientation, some BISEXUALS choose monogamy and some do not.
Dunn said she felt Hill suffered because of a lack of understanding of bisexuality,
and Hill acknowledged,
“Biphobia is a real thing"
In case Bi Erasure concerns you, and what adds to it,
My thoughts on what to do to erase, bi-erasure.
If you are BISEXUAL, these suggestions are paramount to erase, any negative perceptions of our identity.
Start our own stance by erasing what they think our identity is. Since we all are BI, we MUST stand together while we correct others' misconceptions about our identity.
If your sexuality is being questioned, be as honest as you can.
So, if they call you gay, you MUST tell them your TRUE sexuality.
Would you care to hear my way of correcting the ignorance of others?
Listen to me now,
"Oh, no I'm not gay/straight! I would never limit myself to half the population. I prefer the BEST of BOTH. Otherwise I will miss out on half the fun."
"Being BI is NO lie, the BEST of BOTH is what you MUST try!!!!"
Christopher Jeremiah
This is ONLY accomplished with your TOTAL BLATANT SELF-CONFIDENCE
I hope you have enjoyed this and also learned how to stop our erasure for good!
I am always available for you to contact.
Love you BOTH,
Christopher Jeremiah
PS,
If you have time, read my "Coming of BI" story to find out how I became BISEXUAL.